
robbrookes5 wrote:well all hell has broken loose on this thread now hasnt it lol

just for the record i have never met dude or infact shared any pm`s to date as far as im aware?

lauren this is not a dig at you and im not trying to start a debate or anything.

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but i recall a lot of people actual requested you to stop using text speak or whatever you wanted call it but you refuse to because there is another name for it so thats ok for you.

im not saying stop it as nothing i say will make a difference as im not a committe member nor i have any power on imoc, but if the forum is for members then listen to them its all about a little give and take on things

members do sugest things just look in the sugestions section but alot of stuff just doesnt happen because the committe has the final choice in the matter

imoc is split into groups

us and them

there needs to be a balance on things.

and people need to work as a team instead of getting shot down all the time

its like if theres a problem the mods word is final, never to be discussed with other forum members? somtimes alot of you guys need to take a step back and see things both ways instead of one way

alot of people have left this forum some very very good members
and there sadly missed

michael when i first joined really contributed to the site and he seemed a really good guy but hes pretty much gone now, earl and tim just to name a few

this attitude that some of the committe have is our words final if you dont like it leave.

and people are leaving, in my eyes somthing has got to give and together people need sort this club out

Rob, for the record, using acronyms is not the same as text speak.

IMOC is an acronym for example.

Acronyms are a part of everyday life and also prevalent on the internet as they have been for years.

The thing is Rob, it is never possible to please all the people all the time.

We do listen to members and i appreciate constructive criticism, there is nothing wrong with that.

But, when it is the same handful of members complaining and the other 8000 aren't you do wonder if its got personal over constructive don't you?

We have been long enough to realise that there will always be a vocal few.

These are people that no matter what we say their opinion will not be swayed and they will never be happy.

Its forum life, its how it goes, I get the same thing doing my job as a social worker.

There is always someone to criticise me.

As Scott rightly points out the decision of the committee

(When i say the Committee i am not talking about just me, i'm talking about the Committee as a collective) everything gets voted on, everything gets discussed.

We don't always agree with each other either, there have been some right arguments on the admin forum.

Ulitmately Rob, someone has to take the responsibility of making decisions.

Not all those decisions will always be universally popular, so we have to consider the majority rather than the minority.

Also do not forget we are all volunteers.

There is no

'staff'

(as some have referred to us as), we all give our time free etc.

I don't want nor do i expect any thanks for that, that is not why i do it.

I do it because i enjoy being involved and because there is stuff that i need to be involved with at the moment.

I will not be a committee member forever don't worry.

Members move on, they sell their cars, get married or elope etcetera.

The demographics are constantly changing and this may well make things better or it may well make the feel of the club worse in your eyes.

Michael is a long standing member who was on the admin team back in the old yahoogroups days.

He has contributed a great deal, make no mistake of that, but he has had the odd axe to grind at times too.
