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sorry to see you are stepping down earl.your honest and balanced views will be missed,by me and i imagine a lot more of the genuine people on here.anyway enjoy the freedom and keep in touch.paul.






Many thanks Paul.



I'll be available on the T B Development$ forum if you want to chat mate.




EarL.





Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 11:56 pm













Sorry to see you go mate.








Lodgeman
Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 8:38 am













its all very well moving on but the core issue is never resolved so threads like this will keep coming back! all that means is more work for you and the other mods/commitee members.







Tiamat
Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 9:02 am








its all very well moving on but the core issue is never resolved so threads like this will keep coming back! all that means is more work for you and the other mods/commitee members.





What choice is there to make?

I don't see that there is anything.


Earl has stated he is going and HIS reasons for going.


There is no choice in respect of this matter, the thread has gone off at a tangent with people contributing without knowing everything.


This makes it worse as its all based on rumours, personal opinions and half truths.


The reason we have a Committee is so that we do not have to turn to the members for every single little decision.


Anyone can go for Committee position, become a moderator and then move to Committee, there is no exclusivity.


I agree its ruining what IS an excellent club and I for one want it over.


But I also accept that things are not black and white and not always what it seems.





Michael
Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 9:16 am















Earl has stated he is going and HIS reasons for going.





He's also stated the reasons he made the choice to go, that's why this current content is being posted.



There is no choice in respect of this matter, the thread has gone off at a tangent with people contributing without knowing everything.





Why don't the members know everything? Because those who know the




This makes it worse as its all based on rumours, personal opinions and half truths.





How can it be based on anything other than this if those who hold the cards are unwilling to show their hand?


The reason we have a Committee is so that we do not have to turn to the members for every single little decision.





And that's what's holding IMOC back and turning it stagnant.



Anyone can go for Committee position, become a moderator and then move to Committee, there is no exclusivity.





No they can't




Yes people can attempt to become a moderator based on the support of their mates and very little else but once there what happens? Most become frustrated and step down or simply go silent and do absolutely nothing to help IMOC until they have agenda of their own to attend to.



I agree its ruining what IS an excellent club and I for one want it over.






It WAS an excellent club, these days it's more of a business rather than collaborative project where everyone can get involved without the need to gain approval from people who seem intent on just demonstrating their perceived power on a daily basis by belittling the core membership.



Something






Tonigmr2
Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 9:26 am







Having been in and around IMOC since the late 90s I do find this all rather depressing.





At what point, do you think, when mr2oc.com, mr2oc.co.uk, gt4oc and IMOC have all had to deal with arguments and fallout caused by one individual time and time again, when all other traders get on except with that same person, what point do you think they should throw their hands in the air and say forget it?



It's always a no-win situation, Earl was in it, the committee is in it, and other moderators are in it, and not only at this club.




T


edit for Michael






Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 9:46 am








Tiamat wrote:

Earl has stated he is going and HIS reasons for going.




He's also stated the reasons he made the choice to go, that's why this current content is being posted.




Granted, but it has progressed rapidly into something else, a new thread should have been started to raise concerns.


michael wrote:

There is no choice in respect of this matter, the thread has gone off at a tangent with people contributing without knowing everything.




Why don't the members know everything? Because those who know the




Members don't know everything yet because no final decision has been made as I understand it.





michael wrote:

This makes it worse as its all based on rumours, personal opinions and half truths.




How can it be based on anything other than this if those who hold the cards are unwilling to show their hand?



See my answer above, if it involves the Committee as individuals then they are entitled to some privacy.



michael wrote:

The reason we have a Committee is so that we do not have to turn to the members for every single little decision.




And that's what's holding IMOC back and turning it stagnant.




Disagree, if we had to get a vote on every decision the club would be unworkable.




michael wrote:

Anyone can go for Committee position, become a moderator and then move to Committee, there is no exclusivity.




No they can't










The Committee work on a majority basis.













michael wrote:

I agree its ruining what IS an excellent club and I for one want it over.





It WAS an excellent club, these days it's more of a business rather than collaborative project where everyone can get involved without the need to gain approval from people who seem intent on just demonstrating their perceived power on a daily basis by belittling the core membership.



Something





It has to be run as a business, IMOC outgrew its capacity on its servers etc.






How can they be more transparent? Suggestions please.



Its all well and good saying this has to be done and that has to be done, by why not propose a solution instead of just critising?



Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 9:46 am













This TB/Tim debate is never going to end, it's just going to continue to create division within the Club.



The current animosity towards the Admin of this Club is IMO not acceptable and cannot be justified.


It would appear that the REAL full facts of this whole matter are never going to be published, so nobody will be ever be able to vote one way or the other, resulting in both camps becoming more entrenched.


If so many people on here are so dis-illusioned with the way the Club is run and by whom, then I cannot understand why they continue visiting and postiing.


Over the years it would seem that ALL MR2 Clubs fall victim to this kind of bash the Admin.






I draw from this, that we are not the happy bunch of MR2 owners that we all like to think we are.





Michael
Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 9:58 am


















Its all well and good saying this has to be done and that has to be done, by why not propose a solution instead of just critising?


Because I'll be ignored and the usual excuses will be made.



Solutions have been proposed many times, ideas continue to be posted by members, time and time these are shot down by narrow-minded people with their own agenda for IMOC.






Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 10:10 am















Tiamat wrote:





Its all well and good saying this has to be done and that has to be done, by why not propose a solution instead of just critising?


Because I'll be ignored and the usual excuses will be made.



Solutions have been proposed many times, ideas continue to be posted by members, time and time these are shot down by narrow-minded people with their own agenda for IMOC.




Nice mature response there Michael.




And you wonder why you get ignored?


Also hardly the way to get someone onside to help you.



If you have any suggestions then put them to me and I will try and raise them.



I have never seen any proposals from you so cannot comment on what you have raised in the past.



Contrary to the childish comment you have posted above I am not a corporate whore for IMOC, I have given up my time to help IMOC in the past and been thoroughly abused over it.



If you ask around the Forum you will find that I am one of the most independent people on here.



I find you questioning my independence to be very insulting Michael, clearly you have your dislike for the Committee




Not that I expect an apology from you, its clearly been demonstrated in the past that you don't care who you insult on here.



Despite that, raise the suggestions with me and I will put them forward.





Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 11:52 am














I thought from the beginning, instead of an instant ban on Tim, try a month ban, then if wrong is done again, another month, 3 months then out if ya like.







Its in the rules










Also every member could then get three warnings, behave for a month and then go back to their early misbehaving ways knowing they got three chances again.






Earl
Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 11:57 am














Sorry to see you stepping down Earl





Earl you mentioned you would be over on Tim's Forum




can you please clarify old chap.




total respect to you for standing up for your principles








Thanks Frank, your support is much appreciated mate, as ever.




I chose to stand down as a moderator for the reason given.






As for Casio's statement:


The only reason Earl has stepped down is becuase his loyalty has become questionable.






If you took the time to get to know me as a person, I think you'd think differently.



EarL.





Luthor1
Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 12:03 pm













Tiamat












I firmly believe that the right way is usually the hardest way, and to mention workload as a reason for doing this or that, doesn't inspire that much confidence.




I'm not trying to create arguments or be facetious, it's honestly how it made me feel.





Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 12:05 pm













Luthor think you should run to be a moderator, then you might realise more what Malcolm is saying.



T




Ducatichick
Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 12:07 pm












Luthor think you should run to be a moderator, then you might realise more what Malcolm is saying.



T



I would second that Toni





Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 12:12 pm













I would have run, but I didn't think I'd get in.






As for your defense of the system, most systems work until they are found to be flawed.





I know my post almost certianly warrants a defensive response, but if you re-read it, you'll notice the tone is fairly gentle and understanding.







Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 12:13 pm














Tiamat












I firmly believe that the right way is usually the hardest way, and to mention workload as a reason for doing this or that, doesn't inspire that much confidence.




I'm not trying to create arguments or be facetious, it's honestly how it made me feel.




I have put a lot of effort into the club over the last 4.5 years, but people forget this club is run by volunteers.






To get a formal warning it is voted on by the Committee on a majority rule basis.





Its not that I can't be bothered with the work, I have tried to help lots of members on here, but at the end of the day we all have our own lives to lead.








Tiamat















As for your defense of the system, most systems work until they are found to be flawed.







How is the system flawed?


You make three serious transgressions of the rules, your banned from the site for life.



Its simple to understand and it works.



If it can be improved then by all means make a suggestion on how to do so.



I have said this before in this thread and on others, if you don't like it, do somethig gabout not just critisise.



This means providing suggestions, the Committee and Moderators can't think of everything and implement everything ahead of all problems and keep everyone happy.



Not having a go Luthor1, but too often people come on here and say





Again putting the ball back to the Committee and Moderators to give up more time to solve a problem they do not see in the ifrst place.



The Committee and Moderators want to come onto the site and enjoy it too.





Luthor1
Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 12:33 pm













Again, with the greatest respect




Can you see how it looks from this side? I think this very small and isolated set of exchanges clearly demonstrates the feelings from both sides.






EDIT: I never said the system WAS flawed







Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 12:46 pm













Andy I think the current system is pretty reasonable, with most people one or two warnings are usually enough for them to get the hint.





The system suggested by Steve is equally workable though and a month ban may well get the message home a bit harder than a simple warning.






Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 12:47 pm














luthor1 wrote:
Again, with the greatest respect




Can you see how it looks from this side? I think this very small and isolated set of exchanges clearly demonstrates the feelings from both sides.






EDIT: I never said the system WAS flawed






Luthor1, I am sorry if you see my posts as defensive.





I accept that you did not say the system was flawed, however I read in your post an implication that the system was flawed, hence I asked for suggestions.




Steve said what he thought, I did not read that as a suggestion.






I still maintain that we need a system applicable to all, whcih means under the current system if I rip people off I am banned for life.




We need a simple system that applies to all members, not a system that calls for grading of offences, which would mean that time would be spent arguing with people who feel they have been prejudiced and their offence didn't warrant a particular grading.



Again, sorry if my posts come across as defensive, but all I can do is state things as I see them, which if they are a contrary view then are going to be perceived as defensive and






Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 1:46 pm













I was trying to make a valid point about how communication can be perceived, and how this can differ from how it's intended, in the hope that the relationship between the mods/committee and some of the general population of IMOC could quickly repair to trust and respect.



I didn't succeed, perhaps this thread was the wrong place to do it, sorry

all.





Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 2:28 pm














luthor1 wrote:
I was trying to make a valid point about how communication can be perceived, and how this can differ from how it's intended, in the hope that the relationship between the mods/committee and some of the general population of IMOC could quickly repair to trust and respect.



I didn't succeed, perhaps this thread was the wrong place to do it, sorry all.




I want to





Both of us misunderstood the other.



Its the usual internet problem, all the information you get is from what you read, there is no emotion to it, no inflection and its easy to misunderstand.






Speedy
Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 2:39 pm














There are no





Actually, thats not quite true.









Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 2:47 pm












Quote:
There are no





Actually, thats not quite true.







Good point I'd fogotten about that.




Must ask Ben to clear the ban list, I've lost my place.






Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 3:19 pm














I was trying to make a valid point about how communication can be perceived, and how this can differ from how it's intended, in the hope that the relationship between the mods/committee and some of the general population of IMOC could quickly repair to trust and respect.



I didn't succeed, perhaps this thread was the wrong place to do it, sorry all.



You did suceeded Luthor, but unfortunately, some of the wrong people were listening.







Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 8:29 pm














Tiamat wrote:
Steve said what he thought, I did not read that as a suggestion.






Blimey, don't think i've ever had my name quoted that many times since JAE photo's!!


Right, the idea was just that an idea, not a fully thought out suggestion, but thought i'd try



I just felt that all the strife




As far as i recall, no-one was



If it's been already looked at





Posted: Thu Aug 16, 2007 1:06 pm










Anyway, on-topic









Cheers John,


Thanks for the support mate.




EarL.
