turns out when the prats from the starter shop put the positive bracket in the wrong place and it shorted my car i checked absolutely every fuse in the car frunk footwell and engine bay all with a digital meter and nothing checked voltage to the starter through the cable same with the alternator and as i was doing the last check i was told to do by peter gidden

(massive massive help great guy) my wife was mouching

around in the engine bay and found a cable on the drivers side near the top of the engine had exploded on a connection which turned out to be a earth cable so i held it back together and car started first time problem solved so i replaced the cable for new and took it on a big drive sweet now never skipped a beat

so get yourself a good wife