I do not meant belittle any of the comments made previously, far from it

(very valid and factually correct they are)

But, with abuse and bad manners i seem to be on the receiving end of these days almost daily, this is how i feel

& almost have to justify myself

As I am white, I am a racist
As I work, I am a heartless capitalist pig
As I drive a car, I don't care about the environment, Capitalist pig, no doubt)
As I am a man, I am a sexist misogynist

Etc, etc

I was called a corporate F***, recently as i held a door open for a woman,

(by the woman i held the door open for) she said i was stereotyping her as the

"little woman", I was simply exercising some manners, i said, Foxtrot Oscar was the reply!

the fact I hold the door open for anyone man, woman, child, other ethnic and sexual origins also catered for, following me.

Getting in the lift, at the office, the two people getting in after me, I politely asked

"which floor would you like" all I got was abuse, from two young women, i hesitate to to comment on their origin, etc, as that no doubt would be offensive to some, as i dont flipping know what you are allowed to say.

When Benedict Cumberbatch had to apologise after calling black actors

'coloured' I was told you couldn't say Black not that long since, sorry but what the heck can you say.

If i am that out of touch, i may as well go off the edge of a cliff

Our company is owned by an Indian family,

(the nicest people you could ever meet) we have,

Chinese, Polish, Pakistani, Estonian, a Hong Konger

(shes says that phrase is not racist as someone once said it was) Mancunians, Lancastrians, Yorkshireman

(me),

& Persian, people working in the office.

We all deal with most of the countries of the world, again we manage to communicate and have formed personal friendship with many of the people we have,

& do work with

I manage to not offend any of my colleagues, customers

& vendors, so I do think I am behaving in the main as a respectful person.

If a refer to am Asian, as an Asian, I am being racist, I cannot say I am English as that makes me a racist, the last stray was developing new product packaging, for a product made here in england

/ UK, and when setting it up, i put a union jack flag on there,

"flying the flag" for english

/ british

/UK manufacturing, someone said

"ohh thats risky, it could be seen as supporting the NF, i mean people really!

It does seem you cant avoid offending anyone if you open your mouth

Then people ask me why I am jaded, depressed as s*** and just cannot be bothered even with a car meet anymore, and why the 2 is going

/ broken

Its almost not worth bothering

Sorry rant over